Over 40 Dressing: Lost weight and now what looks good on me?

I love you site. It has become a favorite!

I am 52 and recently lost 30 pounds. Both my kids will be in High School and I feel like I'm starting life over.  I'm a size 6 at most stores and love shopping again. However, it's a whole new world as I'm not 30 anymore and I'm not quite sure what's age appropriate.  I am desperately fearful on looking foolish or like I am trying too hard.

I recently purchased a pair of shoes, but every time I put them on I feel like "I'm trying too hard".  I'm pairing them with a semi-fitted t shirt with rushing and straight leg jeans (which I've never worn in public for the same reason)  or a cuffed Capri jean.  Please help me.  What do you think?

Thanks so much!

Diana

Hi Diana,

Well first off we want to congratulate you on your weight loss!  How exciting to be starting off this part of your life with confidence and a new body!   As far as your question goes, a common complaint we hear from women who have lots weight, is that they  are confused on how to dress their new figure.  But the good news is that we think you are right on track!

For example, we think the shoes are wonderful!

If you are looking to be more casual and stay cool: